Love Dilemma Article

The Pashometer – tell-tale signs they want to kiss you

There’s nothing quite like those few seconds before your first kiss; the pure adrenaline rush as your eyes meet theirs, the anticipation, and the excitement. But going in for that elusive first kiss can be like sailing into unchartered waters in the dead of night. Without a map to show you whether it’s safe to proceed you could plow head first into disaster.

Watch out for these tell-tale signs that they want to kiss you, remembering to look for a cluster of at least four positive signals before you jump in head first.

They want to kiss you if they:

·         Keep looking at your mouth and let their eyes linger there

·         Lick their lips - When we are attracted to someone our lips engorge with blood making them ultra sensitive to touch.

·         Touch their mouth often – Constant auto-erotic touching of the lips is a tell-tale sign that their lips are tingling with excitement. Watch their stroke style for clues on how they’d like to be kissed. If their touch is light and feathery, gently caress their lips with yours to leave them begging for more.

·         Put things in their mouth – What they do with the object may be giving away more than you think. A pen sliding in and out of their mouth tells you that a kiss is not all that’s on their mind.

·         Bring their head closer to yours – This move into your intimate space is a surefire signal that they’re keen to kiss you. If you’re not sure, brush your lips on their cheek. If they move their face towards yours then it’s a definite green light.

·         Touch your face – Touching the face is a very intimate gesture, and suggests that they’d like to get closer to you, and not just physically. If their hand or fingers touch or linger on your lips no further signals are required.

·         Tilt their head when looking at you – They’re showing interest and angling their lips towards yours.

·         Face you with their foot between your legs – Positioning their foot between your legs is a ploy to get into your intimate space. How close they’d like to get depends on how close your respective groins are. If they’ve positioned their front foot between your legs, so that both your groins are touching, they’re already thinking about what it would be like to sleep with you.

·         Talk about kissing or reveal intimate details about themselves – If they move the conversation to kissing, flirting or sex, then they’ve got more than the weather on their mind.

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